Investing in Unbelievers
- Donnie Miller
- Sep 30, 2007
- Series: The 5
Trinity Family exists to build an authentic community of
Christ-followers put up mission statement slide We're committed to
growing in and living out 5 disciplines that both shape us as followers
of Christ and shape our church. Put up "the 5" slide I believe from the
bottom of my heart that a group of people living out "the 5" will be an
unstoppable force for the Kingdom of God in their community. Folks, we
can transform our little corner of the world. Just as Jesus told us, we
can cause the gates of hell to shake in fear. We can be a force in our
world! I believe this, I know this.
At its best, when the church
is living up to what Jesus imagined it could be, the church brings
hope, healing, wholeness to screwed up world. We are the body of Christ
in our world!
Each one of "the 5" is about discipleship. They're
about us growing in our walk with Christ. You see it all throughout the
New Testament, the expectation that followers of Jesus will be
worshipping God, living in community, serving others, being generous.
The final biblical expectation of a disciple is that a disciple will
reproduce themselves. That a life lived as a disciple means that you'll
helping other people become disciples as well. An authentic disciple of
Jesus will be reproducing other disciples. If you're a disciple there
will be other people who have started following Jesus as a result of
your influence.
But a huge problem in our churches is that way
too many people who claim to be followers of Jesus aren't living out
this discipline. Our churches are full of people who never really even
think much about investing in unbelievers.
Here's what happens. We
commit our lives to Jesus, we begin to experience all the incredible
life-change that comes with a life of following Jesus and we begin to
isolate ourselves from those who don't yet know Jesus. We feel
comfortable because we're okay with God, our family is okay with God
and we ignore a world full of people who don't know Jesus. To not know
Jesus in this life really sucks, but to die without Jesus is hell -
literally. But we don't care because we're okay. People that don't know
Jesus make us uncomfortable. We don't want our kids hanging out with
other kids that will teach them bad words. It's so much easier to hang
around people who think and act like us. Whatever the reason, we bury
ourselves in our Christian cocoon and we say to the hurting people
around us (literally) "I guess I'm not going to share Jesus with you,
you can go to hell."
Folks, our actions say that all the time.
I've said that through my actions when I've been so focused on getting
my lawn mowed that I'm too busy to stop and have a beer with my
neighbor. Or, talk with him while he's out having a beer.
It's
never intentional. None of us are saying, "I hope my neighbor goes to
hell." But when we let all the others things in life crowd out a
commitment to investing in unbelievers. And to fail to live out this
discipline is to fail to live out Jesus' last command to his followers.
Church history it's come to be called "The Great Commission."
Matthew 28:16-20
This is what I meant when I said earlier that a disciple of Jesus will
be reproducing themselves. If someone is following Jesus with all of
their lives, other people can point to them and say, "I'm a follower of
Jesus because of your influence in my life."
And Jesus just
assumes it will be happening. "You will go and make disciples." This is
the last thing Jesus says in the gospel of Matthew. The book ends right
after this command. You and I are Jesus' only plan for bringing
salvation to broken and hurting people. He has no backup plan, we're
it.
With that in mind, let's dig a little deeper into Jesus' command.
First of all, vs. 17 Don't you love the honesty? They worshipped but
they still doubted. "Jesus, I trust you, but I still doubt." There's
room for doubt in the Christian life. We can be living our lives as an
act of worship to Christ and still wonder if things really are going to
work out in the end. If we keep taking steps in the right direction,
despite whatever doubts we're having, God will honor that faith.
Doubting is okay, but giving up - that's not an option. Someday, folks,
our faith will become sight.
Vs. 19 - Therefore, go and make
disciples A more accurate translation is "as you go, make disciples of
the nations." Again, Jesus is assuming that helping other people take
steps toward him is just a natural part of a disciple's life.
And
who are we to make disciples of? The nations. And this is where it gets
interesting. To a good moral Jewish person (and all Jesus' first
disciples were Jewish) nations would have almost been a dirty word.
Nations refers to all those people that are different from us. Dirty,
unclean, Gentiles. The common Jewish belief was that the Messiah would
come only for us, for those like us, the clean and upright Jewish
people. The insiders.
Yet here's the Messiah telling his Jewish
followers to go to the nations. Jesus is assuming that his disciples
would be in regular contact with those who aren't like them. Repeat A
disciple of Jesus builds relationships with people who don't share
their worldview, don't share their ethics, have different values.
If you're only around Christians and only rubbing shoulders with those
who share your worldview, if your world is deeply immersed in a
subculture of people just like you, then you can't make disciples.
Jesus assumed his disciples would build relationships with people not
like them.
It's in your going, it's in building relationships
with those who don't yet know Jesus, that you share the salvation of
Jesus.
So you build the relationships, then what do you do. Vs.
19 - "baptizing them in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy
Spirit." Baptism is a public statement that we're followers of Jesus.
So we're to challenge people to commit their lives to Jesus. There
comes a time where we ask a person, "are you ready to make a public
commitment to Jesus?" And when they're ready, we celebrate it.
It's interesting that Jesus doesn't just say, "you'll baptize them in
my name" or "in the name of the Father." Jesus tells us we're to
baptize a new disciple in the Father, Son, Holy Spirit. I got this idea
from Rob Bell, but what if Jesus' command here has another level
meaning beyond the obvious reference to the sacrament of baptism?
Baptize means to immerse, Father, Son and Holy Spirit make up what -
the Trinity. And what does the Trinity reveal to us about God? That God
is all about relationships. The being of God exists as 3 persons living
in community. I realize this idea of 3 in 1 is mind-blowing, but we can
know that God exists as a relationship, as community.
And we were
created in the image of God. Which means that we also need
relationships. And Jesus is telling us to immerse people into
community, into relationships.
I firmly believe that belonging
can precede believing. That a person who is not yet a follower of Jesus
encounters Christ-like love through relationships with
Christ-followers, that this love will point them toward Christ. A
person can experience Christ's love through a relationship with you
before actually giving their lives to Christ. Belonging often precedes
believing.
It happened in my wife's life. A friend invited her to
youth group events at Central CON, she was a part of the youth group
for almost a year before giving her life to Christ. At that church, she
was loved in a way she'd never experienced before. She finally came to
the point of saying, "I want what they have." Let's invite people to
belong, knowing that if we love them, they'll eventually come to
believe.
There are two great opportunities to October to invite
people to experience our community. Love and Logic (RSVP - Oct. 14)
Trunk or Treat
We baptize people into community and we also teach
people what it means to follow Jesus. Vs. 20 As we're going, as we're
investing, we're also teaching. Now this part intimidates a lot of
people. How am I going to have the guts to talk about Jesus? How will I
know what to say?
1) Trust your actions "Teaching" is more than
using our words. Teaching involves using our mouths, but it's more than
what we say. Everything we do is "teaching" about Jesus. If someone
knows you're a follower of Jesus, then they'll connect your behavior
with Jesus. "They're good people, so I can probably trust Jesus." Or,
"they're judgmental jerks, why would I want to follow Jesus."
Everything we do is "teaching" in one way or another. Your actions and
attitudes teach. What are you teaching about Jesus?
2) Be a mentor
The teaching doesn't happen just before a person gives their life to
Christ. If a new believer is going to grow in their new walk with
Christ, they need those who are further along in their journey to walk
alongside them.
And we've got exactly that opportunity through
our mentoring ministry. We are in need of connecting new believers with
those that have been following Christ for awhile. We have the
curriculum for you to follow, we just need leaders to step up. If
you're interested, fill out that ministry sheet and get it to me or
talk with Aaron Holmes after church. God has entrusted us with new
believers, we must be faithful!
3) Tell the stories Talking with
someone about Jesus is so simple. We simply need to be ready to listen
the other person's story and to tell two really important stories. I
tried to set it up so there would be room for notes on your weekly, but
there isn't much room, I'd encourage you to write this down.
1) We
listen to their story. You may need to ask some questions to get them
talking. "Did your parents take you to church as a child? When are some
times you've felt that God is close?" Questions that get the other
person talking about their relationship with God.
2) We then tell
our story. What my life was like before I committed my life to Jesus
and the difference Jesus has made in my life. If you're like me and you
don't really remember life before Christ, then be honest about it and
share why you're thankful to be following Jesus.
3) Tell Jesus' story. The way I do this over and over is through a picture.
Bridge explanation
But if we're ever going to be in a place to share Jesus' story, we must
first be intentional about building relationships with those who don't
yet know Jesus. Are we building relationships with those who don't
share our commitment to Jesus?
Prayer pray for a particular person, prayer to make the commitment to walk across the bridge
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